healthy relationships

Checklist for a Healthy Relationship

Mutual Respect
If your bf/gf appreciates you for who you really are.
If they listen when you are uncomfortable and back off without ridicule.

Trust
If your bf/gf doesn't get angry or make accusations if they see you talking to other people.

Honesty
If your bf/gf is truthful when telling you where they are going and what they are doing.

Support
If they are supportive when you are going through a difficult time and also when you are going through good times.

Fairness/Equality
If there is equal give and take in the every day decisions that you make.
If you hang out with your friends/family as much as theirs.

Separate Identities
If you each have your own life - friends, family, hobbies, etc.

Good Commmunication
If your bf/gf speaks honestly and openly to you so there isn't any misunderstanding.
If they give you time to think about something, if you need it, before you talk things through.